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October 11th, 2008 at 6:58 am

What’s Holding You Back From Achieving Success?

I believe that life success is largely a result of your mindset. In some cases it’s luck or you’re just born into a family that offers great advantages, but for most of us we have to earn success. There are of course many factors that go into your ability to reach your goals, such as hard work, the ability to take action and discipline, but it all boils down to what you allow yourself to achieve.

At any given time, no matter your experience level or current “success status,” there is always room for improvement and growth. Even though there may be a certain feeling of being content or maybe even anun -realization that there is room for growth, there are certain factors that are holding your back from creating more wealth, more prosperity, more freedom, more time – whatever it is you want to achieve.

That’s an incredibly unfortunate thing. Don’t sell yourself short and allow yourself from settling for less.

The key to breaking through these barriers starts with a little reflection. Often when we set out to achieve a goal, we get sidetracked by the tactics we use to help us reach those goals rather than focusing on what really matters.

I’ll give you a personal example… I recently wanted to buy a new kitchen table. I went to a couple stores to find something that would go well with my current setup. Pretty quickly I found a couple different options that I liked, but there was one in particular that I was interested in buying. Unfortunately the store was missing one of the four matching chairs.

So I thought no problem – I’ll just go to the other location and get it there. Well, turns out the next store didn’t have the set in stock at all, so I went to another location. That store had the chairs in stock but the only table they had was scratched. Store after store, this went on for two days. I was at my whits end.

But then I realized that I was being foolish. I got so caught up in solving the problem of the missing chair, that I had completely ignored the fact that all I really wanted to do was buy a new kitchen table. I also ignored the fact that there were a number of different tables that I liked, that were in stock, and ready for me to take home. My goal could have been achieved in an hour rather than two days.

The point is that my inability to focus on the goal was constrained by the tactics to achieve that goal, which took me off track.

When it comes to business or more global areas of your life, there are constraints that prevent your for reaching your potential. When you can accurately identify those things that are holding you back and then figure out a way to work around them, you unleash the potential to explode your success.

For me, I know that I like to work through a list of tasks and complete them in full. The problem with that is I get fixated on projects even if I discover it is not worth my time or investment. I get so determined to finish the job when it should have been shut down long ago. When I do realize that a particular project I’m working on is a constraint from achieving my ultimate goal, it frees up my time and allows me to be more effective and efficient.

Discovering what it is that is holding you back from achieving life success may be one of the most difficult things. But when you do, and you figure out a way to compensate for those constraints, the ability to exponentially grow your success is extraordinary.

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  • Anonomyous
    2:52 pm on October 15th, 2008 1

    What happens when you have that passion and desire , but your partner does not want more?

  • Ryan
    3:28 pm on October 17th, 2008 2

    Get a new partner! :)

    Honestly, it can be a tough decision and kill friendships, but if you do not share the same passion or vision, it will hold you back.

    Align yourself with people that are driven but can compliment areas that you struggle with.

  • revaz
    6:24 am on October 24th, 2008 3

    i fom in Georgia there was war, i need finance i have not home.my
    brather was dead in war.we live in georgia there was
    georgian-russian war.please help me.) i lived in Gori when russian
    army will come in georgia and will die many peoples i will go in
    tbilisi there now i m refugee,russian army break my home in Gori,my
    brather was soldier when will strart war he go in cxinvali and he
    die ;(.we have now very bad situation have not home and have now
    money to will buy evry day food.now i m in internet cafe and find
    peoples who can will help me and my family.i m only 21,i have wife
    and i wait child.i have mather and father.this is my short history
    if you can please help me

 

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